I promise, nothing I do is for men – feminist shirt for decentering men, destroying the patriarchy

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Elevate your wardrobe with our “I promise, nothing I do is for men” tee, a powerful statement in feminist fashion. This quality cotton tee is not just a piece of clothing; it’s a declaration of independence and a rejection of misogyny. Crafted from soft, light cotton, this durable women’s top offers a semi-fitted silhouette that flatters without compromising comfort. Featuring cap sleeves and double-stitched edges, it’s designed to last and hold its shape. The twill tape across the neck and shoulders adds extra stability, ensuring the tee doesn’t stretch out of form. Perfect for those who support the 4B movement, believe in smashing the patriarchy, or live the ‘single by choice’ ethos. Wear it proudly and let the world know that women’s choices are not for men’s approval.

One of the earliest red flags I ignored in my first marriage was centered around this very idea. My ex firmly believed that when women were getting dressed each day, they’d look in the mirror and ask themselves “What kind of man am I attracting today?” As a frazzled mom with three small children, I was shocked that he honestly believed such a silly thought. I thought perhaps it meant that he was looking in the mirror each morning thinking about attracting women? Perhaps he was. I (and every woman I asked over the years) were thinking about matching colors, weather appropriateness, who we’d be seeing that day, what we’d be eating, personal comfort, nursing ease, etc. Not a single woman I spoke with (even the single ones) were thinking about the opinion of random men either while they were choosing their outfits or while applying makeup. The fact that my ex overlooked, which all women know, is that the attention of males isn’t rare or special. I often encourage men to try signing up on a dating site as a woman and see how relentlessly and pathetically males throw themselves at us, on a constant basis. It might be humbling to learn that our worlds don’t revolve around them, and imho, more males need to be humbled. At the least.